A lot of people are so caught up in love. even if it hurts them A LOT.
Nobody can blame 'em, right? there isn't a law that states you can't love a person.
But how do you know when you're loving for the wrong reasons?
Here are a group of situations you might want to reconsider being in.
The trouble with love is...
He's a great guy. He makes me happy and all but he just doesn't like me. I try everything for him to like me but still he doesn't notice me. I don't know what to do! Help me!
-Ms. Unappreciated
Love's answer is...
Well, if that person really doesn't notice you, maybe he isn't the one for you. Don't waste your time and tears for someone who doesn't even appreciate your presence. Sometimes, you've got to learn how to quit at the right time and for the right reason. But don't be sad because, as the song goes, "There's tons of fish in the water." so don't loose hope. You might not know it but he could be standing right in front of your eyes! :">
The trouble with love is...
My girlfriend and I are in a big fight right now. She said a whole lot of mean words and reached my limit. Out of rage, I told my cousins some bad things about her that aren't even true. I immediately felt guilty about it and apologized. I took back everything I said about her and explained that I only said those because I was mad and she reached my limit. Now, I'm trying to win her back but she keeps refusing me.
-Mr. Trying Hard
Love's answer is...
Both of you did something wrong so don't blame each other. I suppose she isn't mad about what you said, but because you said it. You are special to her and you should be the first to understand that maybe she was going through a rough time at the moment and just needed to release her anger. The best thing you could do right now is to give her some space and time to thing things over. :">
The trouble with love is...
I'm in love with my best friend! Because of all the time we spend together, I guess I've developed feelings for him. I don't want to tell him and I'm afraid we'd grow apart if I keep avoiding him like I am now. I'm scared that the feeling might not be mutual so I decided to just avoid him. I'm confused and I think I need help!
-Ms. BestFriendlyLover
Love's answer is...
maybe your best friend feels the same way, too. He's just not showing it. Just wait for him to make the first move since he is the guy, after all. But don't avoid him because at the end of the day, he is still your best friend. If ever your best friend doesn't share the feeling, don't be sad. Think that even though he isn't yours as a lover, at least he's always yours as a friend. :">
The trouble with love is...
My girlfriend and I have been going steady for about five months now. Our relationship is okay at the moment. We talk, we have fun, we hang out - with her friends. She seldom spends time alone with me. Every time we have plans, somehow there's always a reason for our plans to be postponed. Also, every time we hang out, we're with her friends. When I'm with her, its like she hardly even notices I'm around. Given the fact that we aren't in the same batch, I understand why she doesn't have that much time with me. I think that if she really wants us to be together like she says, she's make an effort to spend time with just the two of us.
-Mr. Unnoticed
Love's answer is...
Maybe there's a reason behind it all. Since she's new to all this, I think she still feels uncomfortable. There is also a possibility that she's scared of what other people might say about her. Besides, even though her friends are with you, just make her feel like you're the only two people there. Don't mind her friends too much and don't take her completely away from them. Think that the world isn't always just about the two of you. She also has a life and you shouldn't tie her to you just because you want her to spend time with her. Know that she loves you and understand where she's coming from. When she's ready, who knows? Maybe she'll even be the one to ask you to spend the day with just you two. :">
The trouble with love is...
He's my ex boyfriend and I still can't get over him. I'm still hoping that he'd come back to me. It's been about almost a year now and still he's the one on my mind. I just can't get him out of there! What should I do?
-Ms. ICan'tGetOverYou
Love's answer is...
Stop living in the past. You'll get hurt more that way. You live in the memory that he still loves you like before that's why you can't move on. Try to accept the fact that he's gone and you'll just have to find a new guy to love. Don't be afraid to love again. Maybe your ex wasn't worthy of the love you could give. The right guy would come along pretty soon. Just wait. :">
The trouble with love is...
My ex and I didn't exactly end in good terms. She suddenly left me in thin air in the middle of our blooming relationship. I've been deeply hurt by this incident that even my studies got affected. Now, I'm in the middle of moving on and forgetting her when all of the sudden, she comes back and says she's sorry and that leaving me was a huge mistake. She asks if I could take her back. I don't know what to do since this is the first time I've been confronted with this kind of situation. I need your help!
-Mr. Undecided
Love's answer is...
It's really up to you to decide whether you want her back or not. If you think that she deserves another chance, then you can go for it. Besides, if she really makes you happy and loves you wholeheartedly, then she is definitely one to stick to! Well, if you have a feeling that she's just going to do what she did to you before, then just tell her the truth. Tell her that you're sorry but you gave her your heart and she didn't value it. She had her chance and she blew it. In the end, all you have to think of is if she's worth the risk or not. Good luck! :">
Love can be complicated most of the time. It can be fun and it can hurt at times. Don't be afraid to love and be loved. Remember that life is short and love while you can. Don't deny yourself the love that you can have. Because love doesn't make the world go round. It's what makes the ride worth while.
-Dr. Love :">
